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That's what he said to Z. yesterday. Was returning home after leaving in the middle of a show just because it was the outward covering herself with her umbrella for the first time (until then will not like) and wanted to repeat before escampara. As we got to the car asked the father: - Dad And already at home? - Well I do not know, call Immolate, yes? The Mocha Dad told us that already had finished work and was on the way, so immediately we saw at home. - Papi came out because of your work? - Yes. - And is in the car on the road? - Yes. - And it will be when we get home? - Well I do not know, when we get already see, if your car is already reached. - But so Dad will win. : (I did not manage to escape the competitiveness absurd, knew it would end up this time, but sit down so badly ... suddenly what had so far been a joy: come home and see your car was to know that Dad was home , had become a Lame: because it gets it first wins. There are a couple of weeks ago I had a conversation with another mom boy after he mounted the bike and shouted kohl s store locator "to see who gets to the door first!". According to her this is an innate attitude has nothing to do with that, as I suggested I fostered adults "without us realizing" (though this I'm not so sure.) I know that there is an innate competitvidade, with a biological meaning, a real, is that for example makes the Z wants to get one before the park to meet "their columpia." But there is a reason to want to come first, and what is the reason you want to get to the door first? Or you want to get home before? None. not believe that but we who give them these examples, skirt them wanting to be the first because. As we learn, as we do not know of other tools, like I'm the only one to you feel bad, so I hear every step things like: - Come see who finishes first soup! See that you will win your brother. - What will scale well in the first row (here another example of how to be last in the queue becomes just being a more a punishment.) - That did not occur in more activities races crawling baby (with prize for the first three, and had been very successful because repeated activity this year). - Ale, we have to go, before you put the jacket wins. - Games for children in which all is to be the first: kohl s store locator in a race, with an egg in a spoon - ... - But so Dad will win. - He will win, Z.? - Well, as they say in Spanish? (making me do not even know if you can win something) If it comes first wins. - not win anything, it comes when it first we get home we can see, and if we still have first we waited. And until next time, do not come terdará. would like to continue conveying this idea to children? Winning, being first is good (whatever it is) losing is bad.
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